I hope we can connect soon. Please get to know me a little here and reach out when you’re ready to begin.
While I offer therapy to clients across the country in Oregon and Florida, I live with my wife, three children and dog in the Tampa area. If I’m not enjoying some outdoor recreation or inside getting lost in a book or something creative, I’m searching for ways to create genuine encounters with people. For me, this means listening to stories different than mine, exploring the edges of my knowledge and experience and welcoming uncomfortable conversations to see how we can connect with one another.
It’s tough to live life to the fullest when you feel empty. When you or your relationship are stuck in dead end patterns, you need need a place to process that is full of empathy and free of judgement. I consider it a personal calling to provide such a space. In your time with me you’ll find the healing presence and guidance needed to face your challenges and create a life worth living amidst it all.
My way into this work emerged as I was changed by personal loss and suffering. I had always felt called to be a healing presence for those most misunderstood and marginalized. So, I studied theology, philosophy, and Christian education and spent 12 years in church ministry. The most transformational seasons came through counseling individuals and couples seeking meaning and connection amid their suffering. Yet, I felt constricted by my role, unable to show up freely and fully for those needing serious mental health support and advocacy. When personal loss and crisis devastated the life I had tried to build, I knew the only authentic way forward would be to embrace the change shaking my foundations. Years of empowering therapy helped me return to graduate school and set a new course to be a therapist. Since then, my integrative approach has taken shape in a way that fits who I am today.
I give my genuine, nonjudgmental, empathetic yet challenging presence so you can be fully truthful with yourself, your partner, or others. We begin wherever you are. I let your experience in the here and now guide us to what’s most important to work through, whether that be past or present trauma, relationship distress, or anxiety. I see each session together as an opportunity to experience growth and change.
Then, you get to exercise your courage with new actions. I guide you into new communication, new contact with the experiences and emotions waiting for attention, so they’re not stuck in your mind-body, leading you to damaging behaviors. We can improve the way you relate to problems and get you out of old patterns with those you love. My clients have often come facing or surviving communication and intimacy problems, breakups and divorce, anxiety/depression from loss and trauma, and parenting struggles.
I am deeply committed to working for the liberation of oppressed people in the world. At minimum, this means both self-work and professional growth. I’m passionate about continuing self-examination of my identities and grappling with how they impact others. I recognize my being a white, able bodied, heterosexual, cisgendered male impacts how I live in the world and work with clients. I invite this awareness into my work, making space for you to explore possible ways you may have been “othered” based on an aspect of your identity. When necessary I may even take responsibility for ways I misunderstand you and work to reconcile as it impacts you. Professionally, I deepen my relational approach by regular education and training on racial trauma, affirmative LGBTQIA+ therapy, and multicultural therapy.
Every part of your experience is important to me, including race, faith, family, gender, sexual orientation! I am a proud antiracism and LGBTQIA+ ally and will gladly offer safe space to those wanting to integrate these aspects into the process of therapy. Our encounters in therapy may only be a small part of the cultural landscape. However, I strive to co-create unique liberating experiences with each client.
Licensed Marriage Family Therapist in the state of Florida MT4384 and Oregon T1889.
MA in Marriage Couple Family Counseling from George Fox University, Portland, OR.
Advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy. Currently seeking certification.
Advanced training in Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, body oriented treatment for trauma and attachment healing.
Intensive training in understanding and treating racial trauma.
Member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy
Member of the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT)
Former Adjunct Professor- George Fox University, Graduate School of Counseling.
Presenter- “Hold Me Tight” marriage conference.
Private practice therapist- Individual, couple and family therapy practice in Oregon and currently based in central Florida.
Graduate Counseling Intern- Sherwood School District, Sherwood, OR.
Prior to professional psychotherapy work, I completed degrees in theology and education and worked in vocational ministry.
My approach is relational, experiential and process oriented. I bring together the following primary modalities to focus uniquely on your needs:
Emotionally Focused Therapy
Sensorimotor & Somatic Psychotherapy
Existential Humanistic Psychotherapy
Attachment Based, Interpersonal Neurobiology & Polyvagal Theory